Stress? What Stress?

By Cate Hartnett

At the risk of sounding cliché; where did the time go? As I type this post, I keep glancing at the calendar, convinced it’s only September. How are we are already wrapping up the first full week of December? How will I get all my shopping, baking, and decorating done on time? Has my money tree bloomed yet?

If you’re like me, you’re probably asking yourself similar questions. Over the past couple of years, I have learned to manage my holiday stress in a variety of ways. Since they’ve seemed to help, I thought I’d share some ideas with you.

It’s okay if you’re not perfect: With so much to do and so little time, I need to remind myself that “good enough” is okay and to get done what I feel is most important. This may mean I put up only one instead of the usual three Christmas trees (really!), but it’s okay. It’s December 8, and I’ve yet to put up any decorations. I fear I may be the only one in the neighborhood to have not decked the halls, but I’m okay with that!

Less expensive traditions: Do you find yourself doing the same thing every year out of tradition, but it’s not really something you enjoy and possibly costs an arm and a leg (this is where the money tree would come in handy)? Why not change up your tradition with something more enjoyable and affordable? Some inexpensive, fun ideas are bake cookies together, volunteer at a pet shelter, or walk around the neighborhood sipping hot chocolate while taking in all the Christmas lights.

Just say no: And I don’t mean saying no to cookies and egg nog; nobody needs that kind of negativity in their life! It’s okay to say no if it is something that doesn’t bring you happiness. I know we all have things we must do out of obligation, but sometimes you need to just say no. Decline politely, and don’t feel guilty about your decision; people understand everyone is busy this time of year.

Me time: This one goes hand in hand with saying no. The holidays generally mean a lot of parties and other commitments. It’s always fun to spend time with your loved ones, but I find the nights I stay in wearing my fuzzy slippers while reading a book and sipping a glass of bubbly are the best ways to refresh during such a hectic time.

Ask for help: Too many gifts to wrap? Invite your friends over for a gift wrapping party! You kill two birds with one stone by spending time with your friends while you wrap gifts. Bonus if your friends can tie a mean Martha Stewart-like bow!

Have fun: What good is it celebrating the holidays if you’re overly stressed and not able to enjoy yourself and have fun? Blast some Christmas music and dance around the living room while decorating your tree. Not only is it fun, but you’ll burn a few calories. Burning extra calories means more cookies, so it’s a win-win situation.

Wishing you a joyful, healthy, and happy holiday season!

PS –I’m serious about that money tree!