MBTA? WTH!

Would you believe that a little more than one year ago the new Yawkey Station opened? My teammates and I eagerly  patiently waited as the grand opening kept sliding; but on March 10, 2014, a mere two years later than planned, the shiny, new Yawkey Station opened.

With several trains added, I was thrilled! Quite a few were express trains so those of us west of Natick benefited the most. By catching express trains, I was able to reduce my commute nearly in half. I vowed to never set foot on a local train again. Initially, there were some problems as the MBTA worked out kinks in the new schedule. I cut them some slack, but then reality set in. My rose-tinted glasses became faded and scratched as I realized that there was still an abundance of late and canceled trains.

I have observed many reasons that a train can be late:

–          Mechanical difficulties
–          Problems with switches
–          Problems with signals
–          Excessive rain
–          Excessive snow
–          Excessive heat
–          Trains that are short-staffed
           (possibly caused by excessively awesome weather)
–          Police activity
–          Overcrowded trains 
            (I often have had to stand while holding my heavy bags
             on a herky jerky train all the way from Boston to West Natick.
)
–          Medical emergencies
           (possibly stress-induced from all of the above)

           (Let me know if I missed any.)

In January 2014, I blogged about the MBTA and commented about a woman who insisted on chatting despite receiving shushes daily. Oh how I long for those days when that was the chief complaint of us quiet car snobs. Would you believe that Chatty Cathy and I are now friends?!  I even know her real name!

A year later, Mother Nature raised an eyebrow and said, “You think you have problems? I’ll give you something to complain about!”  She inhaled deeply until I thought she would pass out, and then she blew and blew for what seemed like an eternity, sending frigid air and blustering snow for many days, giving us a winter with a commute from “H” “e” “double hockey sticks”!

When the going gets tough, we New Englanders stick together. Here is a scene from the quiet car taken January 26th, the day before the first major snow storm. The masses were exiting Boston in anticipation of being snowed in the next day. It was standing room only and you can see that we were in pretty good spirits; people cracked up as I asked them to pose for my selfie. Little did we know what would ensue in the weeks to follow.

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So that was then, and this is now . . .

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 As recent as 3/16, just two stops into my nine-stop trip and it was standing room only.

The latest estimate to repair and modernize is $6.7 billion! To put this in perspective . . .

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 I know that my analysis is kind of silly (Excess revenue? Certainly not this year or last year for that matter).  But $6.7 billion is a heaping pile of money and ultimately, much of it will come from the tax payers (although western Mass may not want to chip in).

I feel a very faint glimmer of hope knowing that Governor Baker has appointed a panel to look into the issues and make recommendations. One of the things they are looking at is how other transportation systems are run. Hopefully they will look at well-run rail systems where annual snow fall is heavy – possibly Amori City, Japan, the #1 snowiest city in the world. Snowfall in Amori City is approximately 312 inches per year and they do have a rail system.  That is 26 feet, my friends, and they manage to keep their trains running. What about our northern friends in Canada – they must be able to deal with it. Right?

I do hope that the governor’s panel looks deeper and we are not just throwing dollars at the problems.  Time is a’wasting if we want a chance at hosting the 2024 Olympics (or do we?). Perhaps we could volunteer our process improvement team to work with the MBTA!  I’ll set up the project in Tracker and ISPP.  I think a healthy dose of best practice PMM and BAM could go a long way.

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Adapting to Seat-of-the-Pants Project Management

My kitchen renovation project reminds me that even home projects can be trying. Our very old house on Cape Cod has been in the family for 50 years. The kitchen was basic, with a small stove, ancient sink, and an ill-fitting table. No modern amenities or cabinets. My brothers and I decided to renovate the kitchen and re-layout two adjoining rooms to fit in a half-bath. We picked the contractor, Bob, who had re-built our porch twenty years before. We knew him then to be an excellent craftsman and in the ensuing years he had become a general contractor. We outlined our plans with him last Spring in plenty of time to start the project after Labor Day. Bob liked the timing because his summer project would end in late August, he would work on our uninsulated house through November before it got too cold, then he’d work on another insulated, heated house starting in December. All very organized, or so we thought.

Being used to documenting our work, we started sending Bob detailed design specs and floorplans in August. And we drafted a schedule, asking Bob to check our assumptions. We thought we had a great plan that just needed a little refinement, with Bob’s input. However, Bob was absorbed in his summer project and didn’t offer feedback, but did confirm his intention to start work after Labor Day. So over Labor Day weekend, we spent hours emptying all three rooms and doing some minor demolition and we were ready! We soon learned Bob was not. We hounded him to review the design specs, but he’d provide only brief replies that he was buried in his other project. He finally asked to meet at the house in late September. He had many questions that showed he had not read the design documents. As we walked through each room, he asked questions and took notes on the wall. He asked follow-up questions by phone and email. A month after the planned start date, we seemed to have a shared understanding of the project, and our first lessons: 1) Bob does not like detailed written communication. 2) Even a great plan is useless if ignored. For the rest of the project, we did in-person meetings, phone calls, and brief emails. And we did not create documents unless Bob asked for them.

The next lesson was that, although we like schedules, primarily to know when to make design decisions and purchases, Bob does not. When pressed, he would tell us when he expected various tasks to occur, but his estimates were seldom accurate. So we stopped talking about schedules. We’d just ask questions like: When do we need to decide on the type of trim? When do we need to pick the counter material? He was generally comfortable with answering questions like these, allowing us to prioritize our shopping. Eventually we limited how often we asked him what he expects to accomplish in the next week or two. These days we mostly just ask him on Fridays what work he actually did that week.

A project management practitioner would not see much methodology in this project. Our workaround has been to maintain adequate communication to keep it moving. Bob has been an excellent carpenter for 30 years and has produced quality results as a general contractor for 15. His style works for him. He has a steady business and a good reputation. It was obvious that we had to adapt to him, so we learned to live with not planning too far ahead and kept our communication brief and informal. I suspect Bob’s approach causes his projects to take longer than they should, but he does not seem concerned. As his customer, we had the luxury of time. While our project was originally estimated to finish in November, we could tolerate it finishing as late as May. So we’re ok. We even think we’re in the final 4-6 weeks of the project, but aren’t sure. 🙂

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Snowpocalypse 2015

So let’s just cut to the chase and address snow gorillathe 800-lb gorilla in the snowbank. 

This is crazy. This is unprecedented, unrelenting, snow-covered craziness. I don’t know how you all feel, but I for one may lose it. Snow madness is setting in.

We’ve all lived through bad winters and big snowstorms before. We’ve all toughed it out and put on our scrappy, tough New Englander game-face even if we’re not native New Englanders. It’s what you do and who you become when you live in Boston. We’re hardy. We dig out, carry on, and endure. As the man says, “Just do your job.”

But this is different. This run of weather we are experiencing, Snowpocalypse 2015, is above and beyond the worst we have known. The numbers, while staggering, only tell part of the story. The real brutality comes more from the compiling effects of these persistent storms. The impassable roads, mountainous snowbanks, and maddening gridlock. Snowplows that just seem to make it worse and not better. Ice chunks raining down from above. And don’t forget the cabin fever; that’s a uniquely fun form of insanity. It’s all truly surreal. Have we been cursed by a vengeful Norse god? We did what Belichick said, so why is this happening to us?

At the moment, we are still in the middle of it, trying to dig out and stop the bleeding. Making sense of Snowpocalypse 2015 is a luxury for warmer days that hopefully lie ahead.  Until then, short on answers, here are just a few random observations and delirious thoughts on coping.

Snow Fatigue

By now, we know all too well the symptoms of snow fatigue. Feeling beaten down, disoriented, physically sore, and mentally exhausted. Dreading even the sight of snowflakes. Realizing there is no escape from this mess, at least until Science invents a way to teleport people to Jamaica (come on Science, get to work on that already).

To deal with my own snow fatigue, I have resorted to tricking myself. The Buddhists say, “Your focus determines your reality.” Here are some ways I’ve found to alter my snowy reality:

  • Make tropical drinks and listen to reggae.
  • Go to the 3rd floor of my house where it’s warmest and stay there as long as possible.
  • Pretend I won the lottery and shop online for real estate in the Caribbean.
  • Let our pug sit on my lap and steal his body heat.
  • Watch old movies – they harken back to a simpler time without worries or responsibilities. I’d recommend “Viva Las Vegas” or anything with Humphrey Bogart.
  • After getting bored with reggae, switch to Jimmy Buffet, Zac Brown, or ZZ Top. Nothing says warm weather like the live version of ‘Cheap Sunglasses’.

 

Crisis Management

A wise man once said, “Everyone’s got a plan, until they get punched in the face.” That wise man was Mike Tyson. It’s tempting to think he was just talking about boxing. But the past few weeks have been our own punch in the face. And I believe I understand the visceral wisdom in his words.

Organizations and individuals try to be prepared, for anything, for the worst. You can plan for the risk of this problem or that crisis and develop contingency procedures. But history shows us, you cannot plan for everything. Something completely unexpected and inconceivable always comes along to flip over the apple cart and destroy our neatly organized spreadsheets.

In these times, nothing is a given. There are no foundations to rely on. (I mean this literally too. I had to shovel off the flat roof over our kitchen, because NECN says it might collapse.) Without any plan in place, all that is left is the instinct to fight on. Raw determination and sneaky adaptation. Dump the snow in the harbor, sure, why not? There’s no place else left to put it. Over at MIT, they must have secret snow-melting lasers in some lab there. Let’s bust those out and let them rip. Give one to Iron Mike. I bet he’d be good with a secret snow-melting laser.

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Can You Think on Your Feet?

If you haven’t seen this weather video, take a look.
Warning: Swallow any food or drink in your mouth before viewing. It is HILARIOUS.

Weatherman Cory McCloskey from Fox10 News Phoenix recently faced a computer weather map malfunction and handled it like a champ. When the map, which automatically populates its data every 30 minutes based on outdoor temperatures, shows some crazy readings, he thinks on his feet, uses humor, and deadpans the whole thing.

His hysterical monologue got me thinking that no matter how much you practice a presentation, speech, class, or demonstration, things can go wrong. In risk management, you identify, analyze, and potentially mitigate risks. But sometimes, you just can’t anticipate how things play out.

So what do you do when you encounter a glitch like Cory McCloskey did?

  • Improvise. If nothing else, the above video is a fantastic case of improvisation. And really, how much of life is truly just that?
  • Go with the flow. In some situations, you can’t change it. Accept it and move on – “move the scene forward” as improv actors say.
  • Know that as much as technology makes our lives easier, it makes them more complicated. Those complications leave much room for malfunction, which most people in the room have faced themselves.
  • Relax before your presentation; it helps you remain calm and better equipped to handle things that go awry.
  • Stay professional. Something Cory doesn’t do is blame anyone or anything. It’s his scenario to own going forward.
  • Take a moment. It might seem like a lifetime to you, but pausing a second or two before responding is imperceptible. Just don’t wait too long; use your intuition and trust your instincts.
  • Remain confident, which is key to thinking on your feet.
  • Try not to stammer or freeze. Admittedly, this comes with years of practice. It still happens to many people, but it happens less often, the more speaking experience you have.
  • Have fun. The most important lesson from this is to be able to laugh at the situation and try to get others to as well.

Do you have your own “weather map gone crazy” story? How did you deal with it?

P.S. Looking at the date of this incident (1/28: pre-SuperBowl), these apocalyptic fluctuations in temperature could surely have impacted football PSI weight!

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The Puppy Project: Phase 2 (AKA Post Go-Live Remediation)

finn4 In my October blog I introduced you to Finn, the Sheltie puppy I adopted earlier that month.
Coincidentally, he turned 8 months old today! Thinking in terms of projects, we are 4 months post “puppy go-live.” And what a go-live it’s been!

We’ve all been through go-live at one point or another, here at Dana-Farber or elsewhere. Some are memorable for good reasons and some not-so-good. No matter how hard the team has worked in anticipation of that big day – delivering scope, discovering current-state and designing the future-state, creating and executing robust test plans, communicating effectively and regularly with stakeholders, conducting training classes to prepare end users – things can and will go wrong.

I have an admission. I no longer have any polka-dotted socks. None without Finn’s customized venting, anyway.

Whether puppy projects or software implementation projects, any time a new undertaking requires us to change our process or our behavior… yes, bad things can happen.
Does this mean we should abandon ship, that the Puppy Project is a failure, and that maybe a goldfish is a better solution? No, no, and no.

We love him, he loves us. I can’t imagine a day without him sleeping under desk and underfoot. Similarly in the work world, “Do we keep this newly implemented software and figure it out or do we move on and start the implementation all over again with some other vendor?”

Just like trading in The Finn Meister for a few shredded socks, the idea of undergoing another implementation project – especially so soon and on the heels of go-live – is in most people’s minds no option at all. It was A LOT of work to get to go-live! So, what to do?

Yes, Finn attended puppy training and so did we. Training prevented some issues, but obviously not all. “That” wasn’t in the manual! Sound like any implementation experiences you may have had?

Taking a step back, remediation, fine-tuning. Understanding root cause problems, finding and implementing solutions. No, the heavy lifting does not stop at go-live. But, these types of efforts do pay off.

Yes, the socks incident is a problem we didn’t anticipate when designing the future-state during “The Puppy Project, Phase 1.” Our old Sheltie, Shelby, had never stolen a sock or shredded a fuzzy toy in his entire life. Why would the new puppy Sheltie? Until I changed the process of where I place my clean socks, they kept disappearing or becoming mutilated each day since Finn arrived.

This is often the same experience when implementing new software. We don’t always know how our process needs to change until we are using it in “real life.” The key is being open to recognizing and understanding the symptoms (e.g., newly-aerated socks) and taking steps as a team to identifying the underlying root causes. In Finley’s case, the root cause seemed like bad dog behavior, but that’s just a symptom. It’s really the process of where things were left by me, right? Once I understood the real root cause and fixed that (not the dog’s act of stealing), problem SOLVED!

Work-related projects are often some of the same experience, hopefully as fun as integrating Finn into our family has been! Next blog might very well be along the lines of “How one locates and extracts a playful and energetic 8-month-old puppy from a 5-foot snowdrift courtesy of Blizzard 2015!”

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The pitfalls of British diplomacy (or “how to say what you mean but don’t be mean when you say it”)

As a project manager, I’ve learned that the average PM spends 90% of his/her time on communication. I’d like to think that over the years, my communication skills have improved. Whereas in past jobs I tended to speak in a relatively brash manner, I’ve had to adjust to the “smoothing” culture characteristic of Dana-Farber.

 Then a few weeks ago I had a conversation with a member of my project team in the presence of the project sponsor.

 I said: “I will of course clear it with you first.”

 I meant: “I’m going to do this but I’ll let you know before I do it.”

The sponsor shared later: “I wouldn’t have said it like that. I would have said, ‘I’m going to do this; I’ll let you know how it goes.’ As it is, the team member probably heard: ‘If she decides to do this, I will have plenty of time to decide if it’s OK.’”

I was truly surprised. “Wow,” I said. “I thought I was being very forthright, while respecting the other person’s boundaries.”

But it turns out the sponsor was right; my subtlety was lost on the recipient.

In fact, I had to admit that many of the project tasks weren’t getting done as quickly or efficiently as I would have liked. I wondered how much of that could be due to an over-corrected communication style. Had I gone too far the other way?

I looked back to a helpful presentation one of my colleagues had done for our group on cross-cultural communication styles. He quizzed us on where we stood on a spectrum of communication approaches, on which “clear language and making tasks clear” was on the left side, and “leaving room for interpretation and emphasis on relationship” was on the right.

It turned out I was somewhat right of center, while the rest of my colleagues were quite far to the left. Then came the surprise: The USA and Germany were in the far left range; whereas the UK was slightly right of center (Mexico and the eastern nations were on the far right). I was especially amused—and impressed—by the handout at the end: “What British people say vs. what they really mean”

A couple of examples:

The Brit says: “I would suggest…”
The Brit means: “Do it or be prepared to justify yourself.”
The American hears: “Think about the idea but do what you like.” 

The Brit says: “I was a bit disappointed.”
The Brit means: “I am annoyed.”
The American hears: “It doesn’t really matter.”

Yes, this was similar to the reactions I had been receiving from team members when I asked whether their action items were done.

An important skill of the project manager is diplomacy. That doesn’t mean that diplomats are always “nice”. One of the definitions of diplomacy is “skill in handling affairs without arousing hostility”. The amount of space between “being nice” and “not being mean” is pretty broad. In the next few weeks, I’ll be relying on my project sponsor to reel me in from the QE2 back to our side of the pond.

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Do meetings make you unhappy?

Do meetings make you unhappy?? I read a fairly old article in The Guardian that stated that the amount and length of our meetings at work is one of the main reasons why employees are unhappy. It suggested that the more meetings one has to attend and the more time one spends in meetings, the greater the negative effects. Extensive articles and research done on the topic of meetings has resulted in countless tips to help run more productive meetings.

Are these findings still true? Why can meetings be so bad for productivity and happiness? Here are a few reasons:
• They break your working day into small time pieces, making productivity difficult
• They are usually update meetings vs. working/collaboration meetings
• They usually contain a low amount of information conveyed per minute
• They drift off subject easily
• They have vague agendas
• The facilitator did not sufficiently prepare

My days are usually consumed with meetings. Before you start feeling bad for me, I do this to myself. I usually schedule these meetings as a part of the various projects that I manage. How can I ensure I’m efficiently running these meetings, so I’m not making my team members miserable?

It’s as easy to be careless with words as it is to be careless when scheduling and using meetings as the main use of communication. I’ve seen a mnemonic used to determine and guide meaningful communication. The mnemonic is a reminder to t-h-i-n-k before you speak.
T- Is it true?
H- Is it helpful?
I- Is it inspiring?
N- Is it necessary?
K- Is it kind?

Could we use a similar mnemonic to remind us to think before scheduling meetings?
T- Is the meeting timely? Are you using exactly the amount of time you need? Why schedule a full hour when you only need 15 minutes?
H- Is the meeting helpful? Have you given the team the agenda and topics ahead of time to allow the team time to prepare?
I- Is the meeting informative? Is there information to share with the team that requires discussion or approval?
N- Is the meeting necessary? Can you send an email with the update instead of scheduling a meeting?
K- Does the meeting leverage the knowledge and skills of the team members?

Meetings have become our default in facilitating discussions and updates. But this communication method isn’t always best for all work and personality types. Some individuals need time to complete a thought or idea before they are comfortable sharing with the team. Others like to think out loud. This difference can change the dynamic in a meeting and lose input from some team members. Instead, try asking everyone to come prepared to discuss a planned topic in the next meeting. This simple change could facilitate a better discussion involving all team members.

I hear about meeting fatigue often and I do my best to be mindful of how I use others’ time. I’m interested in any techniques that you’ve used. Please share your experiences in the comments.

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The Sugarloaf Mountain Athletic Club vs. the Springfield Harriers – Lessons Learned?

UMass played a large part in my life. I was an employee and a student there. My daughter attended a wonderful day care run by the School of Education. I also belonged to the Sugarloaf Mountain Athletic Club (a private running club) and we occasionally used the indoor and outdoor tracks for training and meets. During a recent visit to Amherst,  I was a bit surprised when the memory of my final track meet crept make that slithered into my mind and stirred up uncomfortable thoughts of “I should have” and “if only”. I had pretty much buried that one deeply.

It was a lesson learned that I never got to use, or did I? I was so sure that I was going to break the 5-minute mile that day. This final meet of summer was going to be my last chance to accomplish my goal. I had been training for months, even paid a coach. I set a goal to run every day of the year and I stuck to it. I ran in snow storms, on icy roads in the dark with the temperature hovering around zero. The first time that I competed in the mile, I ran too conservatively and then turned it on at the end. This time was going to be different because I had a plan. I would hang behind our lead runner, Rita, and then on the last lap, would give it all that I had. Physically Ready + Plan = Victory, right? I was a lean running machine . . .

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My running club’s arch enemy was the Springfield Harriers Running Club. Rumor had it that on hot days, their president would actually stumble and knock over tables with water cups on them so that other runners couldn’t hydrate.

The gun went off and I had a Harrier move in front of me in my lane and slow down. I thought, not a problem. I’ll just move into the next lane and pass her. I moved over. She moved over. I moved back. She moved back. I moved over two lanes. She moved over two lanes. As this was happening, I saw Rita pulling away. About halfway through the second lap, I had a temper tantrum. I pulled out three lanes and then ran fast and “furiously”. I was beyond mad. I passed everybody, even Rita.

I got halfway through the third lap and was ready to catch a taxi. My coach was screaming at me and pointing at his watch. I did not break 5 minutes. I don’t think that I broke 6 minutes. What a disaster!

I had spent so much time preparing physically, but I didn’t have much experience with these events and I didn’t know the rules. I thought people would run fairly and honestly. I was pretty sure that what this Harrier was doing was illegal, but I wasn’t 100% positive. I was thinking that it might be justified if I stepped on her shoe or bumped her. I later checked the rules . . .

USA Track and Field Competition Rules
Rule 163

4.  Any competitor or participant jostling, running across, or obstructing another competitor or participant so as to impede his or her progress shall be liable to disqualification in that event.

I can’t tell you how many times I would think about this day, beating myself up. If only I had waited patiently. . . I should have made my move as we passed in front of the spectators. . . I could have stepped on her shoe and run her over.

I never competed in the mile again, but sometimes lessons learned are a bit more subtle and may apply to other, unrelated events. What did I actually learn from this?

  1. I make sure that I know the agreed upon rules – I manage the deliverables in the project charter – what is in scope, out of scope, what the project milestones are.  If there is a contract, I must be familiar with and understand its terms.  I need to help draft and follow the Communication Management Plan and Change Control Document.
  2. I am reminded that people don’t always want to follow the rules.
  3. I seek out subject matter experts and get advice.
  4. I have learned to control my temper (most of the time).

So when I catch myself saying “I could have” “should have” or “would have”, I pay attention because I may have been presented with a lesson learned.

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Pondering “The Unexamined Life”

The statement “the unexamined life is not worth living” is ascribed to Socrates. As a once dedicated self-help book reader, I encountered it multiple times and used to embrace it fervently. Now, my interpretation of it is more relaxed; I view it as a simple reminder to pay attention to how I am living my life.

I recalled it recently when contemplating some minor improvements that my brothers and I made to my parents’ house on Cape Cod. It has been in the family for over 40 years. My parents bought it from a divorced couple who wanted to be rid of it and each other. The sellers did not even want the furniture, artwork, plates, glasses, or pots & pans. The house was almost fully furnished. So after shopping for relatively few additional household items and doing a major cleaning, it was ready to support carefree summer living.

Over the years we did a lot of work to the outside of the house; the ocean air takes a toll on wood and windows. But the interior stayed in surprisingly good condition and we did not scrutinize it.

Last summer was the first after our Mom passed away. We decided to take a fresh look at the inside of the house for possible improvements. The following is a small sample of what we “discovered” and fixed:

  • We did not like most of the artwork and took much of it down, and sold some.
  • Three tables in the living room were too high or low to use easily while seated. We replaced them with cheap alternatives that fit better.
  • The TV was too small for our older eyes. We got a bigger one.
  • Two bedroom closets lacked shelving and one had no pole for hangers. (How did we not notice that?) We added them.
  • The dressers in two bedrooms were both ugly and too small. We bought nicer ones.

We were amazed by the number of compromises that we had happily lived with for 40 years, but, with a new perspective, realized should be improved. The fixes were quick, cheap (thanks Craigslist), and delightful.

This chapter reinforced for me that it is indeed very good to examine one’s life every once in a while but, for most things, more often than every forty years.

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Rethinking Winter

The snowflakes on the recent weather forecast almost set me back.

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I don’t like winter because of the cold. I’m okay with it until December 26. Then I’m ready for spring. Each year I wish it away.

However, the passing of my father has made me think differently. Faced with mortality, I’m no longer a fan of aging – that of myself or my family and friends. So I’ve tried to stop wishing time away, especially an entire season. I came across the quote, “You will never be younger than you are today” and although it’s just another way of saying you’re not getting any younger, it had a bigger impact on me. I need to live more in each day, more in the moment.

When I saw the snowflakes and forecast, though, I wanted to slip back into my old way of thinking. After all, to me happiness is:
• 75+ degrees outside
• The beach
• Dining al fresco
• Being on the water
• Flip flops
• Floating in the pool
• Driving with the top down
• Playing golf

I felt myself wishing the next several long months away and had to remind myself to try to enjoy each day instead of always looking ahead.

My husband says he always needs “something” to look forward to – an event, vacation, holiday… I’ve tried to adjust my mindset to enjoying the planning and anticipation of that “something” instead of just wishing the time away until the date arrives.

As a project manager and natural planner, it’s also hard to follow this principle at work. You need to look ahead to be successful, but you can also enjoy the process. Instead of staring at the clock hoping for the end of the day, dig into your tasks. Don’t count the days to the weekend; embrace the challenges of each workday. Instead of living for the end of your project, take pride in the accomplishments along the way and appreciate working alongside your team.

It may be cliché, but it truly is about the journey.

Carpe Diem. Because today, we’re all young.

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